Pink for a Girl

Pink for a Girl

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It was a shock to the senses, when I looked for a ‘Baby Shower’ gift recently, and found that the world had suddenly become divided into pale pink and powder blue – gender stereotyping clearly begins at birth. Clothes, toys and accessories were all sorted by colour into male and female, thus moulding genders into traditional roles, and limiting choices. The dolls houses were pink and the tractors were blue because girls are little home-making princesses and boys are action heroes.

Imagine my shock when I went to buy a new trowel from my local garden Centre and found virtually the same situation. Seemingly overnight, a tide of pastels had appeared, where before there had been earthy, gender – neutral colours. There were whole stands of pale pink, blue and mauve essentials like trowels and secateurs, as well as things I have never, ever needed, such as gardening aprons, bags and kneelers. All feminised just for me, made chintzy, fluffy and soft, just how the Marketing Managers imagine I want them.

Surprisingly, I have managed to dig the garden passably well for many years, without reaching for a sugar pink spade. I have used secateurs successfully, even when they only came in red. My feeling is that these new pastel products trivialise me as a gardener, and somehow imply that I garden in a lesser way than a man. Now, gardening is what I am passionate about and I go out there and shake it by the throat.  I don’t go all frilly and floral. It’s hard, muddy work, best done in jeans with holes in, wellies and thorn-proof gloves. I go out there and I chop and I dig and I sweat. A pink axe ? I don’t think so. A mauve mattock ? Never. Because only men use those tools, right ? Those sugar pink tools imply that I do little but prettify the odd planter now and then, nothing more serious than that.

So, sisters, let’s boycott the pink and floral ! Let’s chant  “Real tools for real women” as we picket the sliding glass doors of the local garden centre. Here’s what we do instead … we go down to our local garage sale and rummage in the baskets and boxes. I promise you that hidden in there will be glorious garden tools, with wooden handles polished by blood, sweat and tears. The patina upon that wood is made from pure toil. Those old, well-used tools have a proud gender-free history, and we can only imagine what it may be. They may have been used for decades by the same gardener, lovingly tending the same plot, and you can link hands with that person, male or female, across the divide of the generations. These beautiful tools will cost a fraction of the price of the pink monstrosities in the garden centre  and though they may need oiling or sharpening, you will know that you hold an eloquent piece of equality in your hands.

Jane Scorer likes to garden like she eats cake … compulsively, greedily and frequently. When she’s not gardening, she’s writing about it , and you can find her blog at HoeHoeGrow.

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Jane Scorer

on December 9, 2013 at 10:04 am, in the category Guest Rants, Taking Your Gardening Dollar.

    • Tibs
    • 17th May 2017

    Spouse got me a cutsy set of hand tools. They were chintzy, couldn’t cut, trowel bent whenever you tried to dig. I don’t care what color things are just so they work. Oh and John Deere makes a pink peddle tractor for kids. And the carhart pink girl stuff is made as well as the guys.

    • Jane Scorer
    • 29th August 2017

    I agree completely that whatever colour you buy, it has to be fit for purpose, and we know from bitter experience that only well made garden tools stand up to the rigours of gardening.

    • emily
    • 9th September 2017

    I know a woman who painted the handles of all her tools (hammers, etc.) pink in order to keep the men she worked with from borrowing them. Apparently it worked well, which I do find funny.

    • Nicolas Jardinier
    • 9th September 2017

    When my wife and I were choosing a paint color for our yet-to-be-conceived chile a few years back we picked green for the simple reason that it was neither pink nor blue. We also made the conscious decision to avoid buying our now three year old girl anything pink on the basis that she would receive plenty of pink from everybody else. Sure enough, we were spot on and she has plenty of pink in the closet.

    • Michelle Derviss
    • 10th September 2017

    I am no lover of pink but I think this is a great idea especially for us who work in the male dominated business of landscape construction.

    • Laura Bell
    • 11th September 2017

    Y’know, if the tools work I don’t care what the color is (though I might have to cut my own family if they have other color choices and still give me pink anything). If we’re allowed to express ourselves through our tool/glove/garden clothing color choices, why not have some out there for the women who simply like pink? It’s only “girl-y” because it has been associated with women. It’s not as if picking up a pink tool or wearing a mauve garden hat is suddenly going to make you faint at the sight of compost on your boots or dirt under your nails. Why has pink become – by way of being tagged “feminine” – code for soft, weak, delicate ? I say if you like pink & like working, then ask for good tools in the color. Demand that the tools stand up to what you ask of them & look good doing it! And for those of us women who prefer anything but pink – we are eternally linked to pink in society’s mind. Stop curling your lips & snickering about how soft colors must mean soft work. We all know it’s not about how the tool looks that matter, but whether or not it is fit for the job we will ask of it.

    • gemma
    • 11th September 2017

    I love color as long as it’s not pastels! I actually own a set of hot pink loppers. In my experience, those hot pink tools don’t sell well, so they go on sale and you can find reasonably good tools for a good price. When I lay my tools on the ground, the hot pink loppers are as easy to find as my orange Corona pruners, or my magenta Dramm pruners. I chose those magenta pruners on purpose because it’s my favorite color and because it’s easier to keep track of than the other choice, dark green (worst color choice for garden tools: those are the ones that get lost in the garden).

    • Susan in Western NC
    • 11th September 2017

    It’s not only gardening tools. I wanted to buy a rain jacket from REI but the only colors available for women were pastels: yellow, pale blue, pink. I bought a man’s model in dark green even though the fit wasn’t as good. Pale colors don’t work too well in my muddy world. I wish manufacturers would make women’s gear and clothes in something other than pastels–we are not all princesses (and I dislike pink in general)

    • admin
    • 11th September 2017

    I’m not a pink lover, other than in flowers, but I did buy myself a pink tape measure so that all the men in the family wouldn’t walk off with it. It worked really well.

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